Yesterday afternoon, in a residential building in Dongyu Community, Zhonghe Street, Yinzhou District, Jieuying turned over for her husband, Li Hede, as usual, then sat gently on the bedside and punched her sore back. She had been repeating this for nearly fifteen years.
Wu Jiaoying is 64 years old, and her husband, Lee Ho Tak, is 68. Twenty-five years ago, the two were introduced and married. In those years, although the days were not spacious, there was negotiation in the salt of chai oil, and life was plain and warm. However, in the fourth year of marriage, her husband suffered a sudden stroke and his left body was hemiplegic. The pillars of the original home turned into people who needed to be taken care of.
Since then, Wu Jiaoying went out to work, and Li Hede was at home cooking, cleaning, and caring for his daughter. Although the days were stumbling, they produced a tacit understanding that supported each other. Later, Li Hede suffered a second stroke, becoming paralyzed and completely unable to take care of himself. Since then, Wu Jiaoying began 15 years of personal guardianship.
With more than 5,000 days and nights, she helps her husband wipe, turn over, feed, feed, and deal with defecation almost every day, no matter how small. When the weather is clear, she puts her husband in a wheelchair and pushes him to the door to bask in the sun and see the pedestrian traffic outside. Sometimes, she would gently hum "Oriental Red" to his ear and guide him to sing along. Despite the vagueness of his voice, she listened carefully and smiled and nodded: "Well sung, do it again. These moments made her feel that the days were hard and there was a gentle light.
Wu Jiaoying said: "People have to have an exit. Smile, the bitterness is not that heavy." In the escort gap, she will go to the community square to dance, or use her mobile phone to shake the sound and record the drips of life. Patients who have been bedridden for a long time are most afraid of bedsores. She takes care of them meticulously. Lee Ho Tak has rarely had bedsores on his body for 15 years.
Two years ago, Wu Jiaoying found out that she had thyroid problems and had to be hospitalized for surgery. Helplessly, she sent her husband to a nursing home. A week after the operation, the wound had not yet fully healed, so she rushed to visit Li He De. Seeing her husband in bed crying and shouting "go home", she found that he had a big bedsore on his body, and immediately went through the formalities to take him home.
In 2014, Dongyu community grid members learned about the situation during their visit, listed the Li Ho De family as a key care object, and helped sort out the relevant disability subsidy policies. Nowadays, the "Long Protector" nurses regularly come to the door to help Jiuying share some of the hard work.
Wu Jiaoying said, "It's not easy for two people to come together. He's nice to me when he's nice, he's not nice, I can't leave him. The two of them made" wetting each other and foaming "a daily routine.
